Wonder why things ain't working for your relationship? Of course there must be a reason for that. Here, i compiled 15 reasons why relationship keep failing more especially in this nowadays.
1. Unbalanced sharing of responsibilities
2. 'Blow up' anger and impatience
3. Lame communication
4. Bad company
5. Infatuation or obsession
6. Cheating
7. Too much jealousy
8. Too much pride
9. Too much complain
10.Unforgiveness
11. Cultural norms
12. Laziness
13. Ignorance or illiteracy
14. Inconsistency
15. Unattractiveness
(1) Unbalanced sharing of responsibility
Failure to take ones responsibility attracts disrespect on the part of both parties in a relationship. If you want your relationship or family to be happy, balance the responsibility bar, if not, you are on your own.
If you are tuning a joint bank account with your partner, it's sad to hear ones partner spending recklessly on things out side the need of their family
(2) 'Blow up' anger and impatience
This unhealthy habit is can cause break up or divorce. I hate to hear shouting "what the heck, I ain't goner fold my arms watching.... You hear?".
Resolve every issue calmly because impatience or anger can lead to murder. It is better to know how to control anger than to regret after the worse action.
Impatience and extreme anger is not good at work place, at the school, at the party, every where because it cause someone's or your life
(3) Lame communication
When your partner says some thing and you get it the other way, that is called misunderstanding. But criticism is wrong because you are humiliating your partner. Good relationship practice is to complement your partner and know how you correct each other in times of imperfections.
Working, abusing, insulting your partner is also an lame habit even when you do it in the name of play.
Keeping silent, turning out and acting busy means you turned your partner to a fool. Is a relationship killer.
To avoid lame communication, you must stop holding some grudges, stop storing past conflicts in your memory because that can trigger some bad replies.
(4) Bad company
Some people would monitor your partners every step and exergerate things and report "I caught your partner red handed romancing one beach in his car at the U-junction yesterday" even when they haven't set their eyes on your partner for three days. Hear is the solution. Don't allow any persons opinion to influence your good opinion. That person may be presently in breakup, heartbreak, or divorce injury.
(5) Infatuation
A relationship in which only one party dominates sucks. One person talks, one person make decision, one person spends money, there is a big problem. Obsession have eaten into some peoples born marrow.
Infatuation is commonly found among men. The struggle for power could lead some men who don't think twice into infatuation. Some women are not left behind too. They like to control because they are more financially buoyant than their partners.
(6) Cheating
Cheating is not only the exams malpractice. Any form of infidelity is also cheating and it can destroy ones relationship in 30 seconds. Don't ask me how. Ones partner may disown him/her at that moment one is caught in the act. Cheating can lead to. Unhappy relationship or completely destroy the relationship.
(7) Too much jealousy
Some folk don't want their partner to talk to opposite sex, not even to glance at any opposite sex. This can annoy the partner. If you know and you know that you have extreme jealousy find your way out of it before it destroys your relationship.
(8) Unforgiveness
What is it that you can't forgive in a relationship? In my own belief and opinion, there is no thing I can't forgive my partner.
Some people would rather die than forgiving some certain things. Hmm, what of God who created human being and still forgives human being. It is wrong not to forgive your partner. This may cause headache to your relationship.
(9) Too much pride
One of the reasons many ladies won't marry is too much pride. Guys friend such ladies just for fun if they even manage to friend them.
Don't feel too big to do some certain thing to your partner. Humility would speak good of you at all times.
(10) Laziness
Do you know what laziness can do to your relationship? It can change the way someone's partner thinks about that person. It is good to examine ones self and work on ones self daily as one want ones self to grow towards perfection.
(11) Ignorance or Illiteracy
They say, if you think education is expensive try ignorance. Do you know that some people don't accept correction? At least an averagely educated person should be able to accept correction because he should know that not even computer is perfect.
Here, ignorance is when an educated person shuns the right thing and illiteracy is when an uneducated person shuns the right thing.
(12) Cultural norms
Some African cultural norms according to some tribes, men doesn't enter kitchen. "Cough, cough" I didn't mention any tribe. They are of the school of thought that says this is men's work and that is women's work.
(13) Inconsistency
Some single guys don't seat at home they are here they are there, creating a lot of chaotic relationship which is confusing a lot of ladies. Same as some ladies do. If you are dating and you have many side wrongs, your dating may not be as strong as it should, because when the other party notice it, he/she will not feel wrong to do the same.
(14) Too much complain
That doesn't mean you should keep your problems to yourself but to some people, your problem is not their problem.
Assuming you are on a first date and that person begun to complain. What will come into your mind? For me complain is sad to hear on a first date, who knows how many complains will come up on the second date.
(15) Unattractiveness
Some ladies are beautiful but they are not attractive to some guys. Attractiveness varies from person to person. If you want to avoid relationship failure, make sure that you know who is naturally attracted to you. No make up.
I can't forget how good it is to trust your partner. It also strengthens the bond. There are many of the reasons why relationship quickly fade , feel free to add to these list by comment.
1. Unbalanced sharing of responsibilities
2. 'Blow up' anger and impatience
3. Lame communication
4. Bad company
5. Infatuation or obsession
6. Cheating
7. Too much jealousy
8. Too much pride
9. Too much complain
10.Unforgiveness
11. Cultural norms
12. Laziness
13. Ignorance or illiteracy
14. Inconsistency
15. Unattractiveness
(1) Unbalanced sharing of responsibility
Failure to take ones responsibility attracts disrespect on the part of both parties in a relationship. If you want your relationship or family to be happy, balance the responsibility bar, if not, you are on your own.
If you are tuning a joint bank account with your partner, it's sad to hear ones partner spending recklessly on things out side the need of their family
(2) 'Blow up' anger and impatience
This unhealthy habit is can cause break up or divorce. I hate to hear shouting "what the heck, I ain't goner fold my arms watching.... You hear?".
Resolve every issue calmly because impatience or anger can lead to murder. It is better to know how to control anger than to regret after the worse action.
Impatience and extreme anger is not good at work place, at the school, at the party, every where because it cause someone's or your life
(3) Lame communication
When your partner says some thing and you get it the other way, that is called misunderstanding. But criticism is wrong because you are humiliating your partner. Good relationship practice is to complement your partner and know how you correct each other in times of imperfections.
Working, abusing, insulting your partner is also an lame habit even when you do it in the name of play.
Keeping silent, turning out and acting busy means you turned your partner to a fool. Is a relationship killer.
To avoid lame communication, you must stop holding some grudges, stop storing past conflicts in your memory because that can trigger some bad replies.
(4) Bad company
Some people would monitor your partners every step and exergerate things and report "I caught your partner red handed romancing one beach in his car at the U-junction yesterday" even when they haven't set their eyes on your partner for three days. Hear is the solution. Don't allow any persons opinion to influence your good opinion. That person may be presently in breakup, heartbreak, or divorce injury.
(5) Infatuation
A relationship in which only one party dominates sucks. One person talks, one person make decision, one person spends money, there is a big problem. Obsession have eaten into some peoples born marrow.
Infatuation is commonly found among men. The struggle for power could lead some men who don't think twice into infatuation. Some women are not left behind too. They like to control because they are more financially buoyant than their partners.
(6) Cheating
Cheating is not only the exams malpractice. Any form of infidelity is also cheating and it can destroy ones relationship in 30 seconds. Don't ask me how. Ones partner may disown him/her at that moment one is caught in the act. Cheating can lead to. Unhappy relationship or completely destroy the relationship.
(7) Too much jealousy
Some folk don't want their partner to talk to opposite sex, not even to glance at any opposite sex. This can annoy the partner. If you know and you know that you have extreme jealousy find your way out of it before it destroys your relationship.
(8) Unforgiveness
What is it that you can't forgive in a relationship? In my own belief and opinion, there is no thing I can't forgive my partner.
Some people would rather die than forgiving some certain things. Hmm, what of God who created human being and still forgives human being. It is wrong not to forgive your partner. This may cause headache to your relationship.
(9) Too much pride
One of the reasons many ladies won't marry is too much pride. Guys friend such ladies just for fun if they even manage to friend them.
Don't feel too big to do some certain thing to your partner. Humility would speak good of you at all times.
(10) Laziness
Do you know what laziness can do to your relationship? It can change the way someone's partner thinks about that person. It is good to examine ones self and work on ones self daily as one want ones self to grow towards perfection.
(11) Ignorance or Illiteracy
They say, if you think education is expensive try ignorance. Do you know that some people don't accept correction? At least an averagely educated person should be able to accept correction because he should know that not even computer is perfect.
Here, ignorance is when an educated person shuns the right thing and illiteracy is when an uneducated person shuns the right thing.
(12) Cultural norms
Some African cultural norms according to some tribes, men doesn't enter kitchen. "Cough, cough" I didn't mention any tribe. They are of the school of thought that says this is men's work and that is women's work.
(13) Inconsistency
Some single guys don't seat at home they are here they are there, creating a lot of chaotic relationship which is confusing a lot of ladies. Same as some ladies do. If you are dating and you have many side wrongs, your dating may not be as strong as it should, because when the other party notice it, he/she will not feel wrong to do the same.
(14) Too much complain
That doesn't mean you should keep your problems to yourself but to some people, your problem is not their problem.
Assuming you are on a first date and that person begun to complain. What will come into your mind? For me complain is sad to hear on a first date, who knows how many complains will come up on the second date.
(15) Unattractiveness
Some ladies are beautiful but they are not attractive to some guys. Attractiveness varies from person to person. If you want to avoid relationship failure, make sure that you know who is naturally attracted to you. No make up.
I can't forget how good it is to trust your partner. It also strengthens the bond. There are many of the reasons why relationship quickly fade , feel free to add to these list by comment.
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