Relationship offers a lot of happiness be it family relationship, friendship, love relationship etc. Relationship can puts some smiles on your face. That same relationship can put some slap on your face through heartbreak. But through all, know that certain thing happens for certain reason.
Regardless of sex, age, personality or position I'm surprised that heart break happens to all.
While others acknowledged the existence of tiny buddha magic that could completely erase heartbreak from the citadel of relationship, I'm of the other school of thought that says heartbreak is a heritage of relationship.
5 Facts About Heartbreak
•Heartbreak hurts but it teaches relationship lessons
•Heartbreak is invisible but its effects are visible
•After recovering from heartbreak you gets absolute happiness
•heartbreak can't be avoided unless you don't relate
•Heartbreak only hurt those who don't prepare for it.
Thesaurus dictionary defined heartbreak as a mental or emotional misery ; a heartache, a regret, a remorse etc. But I didn't regret my first and the last heartache because I learned my lesson the hard way. Since then I put on a heart shield and it really helped me in all ups and downs of relationship.
A member of your family, a core worker, or a friend of yours may one day be a cause of heartache and you may not know how to control anger . So take the following measures to make you get over heartbreak.
(1) Be more sensitive in selecting who to date
This will prevent the risk of dating people who don't care about the feelings of others people. A quarrelsome person to me is a no go person. In case your relationship haven't grow deep with such people, know when to quit. Because the longer you are in the harder it is to quit.
(2) Don't over depend on anybody
I'm saying don't too cling to that person you are dating. Making that dude of yours your every thing will worsen the injury of the heartbreak. Likewise, you shouldn't over depend on your family or friends because when the unexpected happen, it will hurt you if you do.
(3) Don't expect every body to be perfect
Obviously no body is perfect except God. We only work towards perfection, not perfect yet. The regrettable aspect is marrying a person who doesn't accept fault and changes.
(4) Don't give your heart completely to person you to anybody
If the person notice that you are completely in, the person may play with your heart recklessly. Moreover, the pain of heartbreak will be more. You will never regret following the person at his/her past. "I love you, I love you too" just to be simple and nice.
(5) Listen attentively to all what the person says always
"In every nonsense there is sense". You may sense the person's intention to make the relationship last or starve the relationship to death. When you know that he/she is not in to stay, wear your heart shield.
(6) Don't unveil all your past relationship issues
Although there are things both of you need to know about each other, there are also things that hearing them is boring. The person may not look discouraged by those issues but deeply within the person, you have seriously messed. And after breakup it will add to your remorse.
(7) Know when to trust and when not to trust
They say don't trust girls, don't trust boys. I have found it true. Trust favors married couple than singles as it builds and strengthens their marriage.
(8) Honor the words of God
This is the most important among all that has been mentioned, abiding by God's words about Holiness and purity of heart in a relationship protects your emotion, spirit and body from infection by heartache which may lead to destruction.
I want to congratulate you because you have just red the texts that some people wish they had came across it before their first heartache.
By Samuel Joseph
@samdewale
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